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CONTEMPLATING DIVORCE

IS THERE ANY HOPE LEFT?
READ ON.....


Divorce is a legal dissolution of a marriage relationship between two people. Most metros in India have recently seen a spike in divorce applications. Bangalore too has seen a rise of 30% in divorce rate in the last two years. 

CAUSES

When you stumble upon

Infidelity
Incompatibility
Domestic Violence
Financial problems
Marrying too young/ too late
Individualistic Attitude
Communication Problems
Lack of Adjustments

Religious difference
Interference from in-laws
Lack of Physical Intimacy
Unreasonable Expectations
Lack of emotional satisfaction
Personal Ambitions- 
vs. Commitments
Lack of support from extended family

 

COUNT THE COST

What do you loose ?

Statistics show 60% of re-marriages ends up in divorce
Research indicates that divorce seldom supplies the solutions
Divorce is infinitely more complicated and painful than people expect.

Divorce and a new partner does not mean you will no longer have YOUR issues

Children of divorced parents have higher chances of going through divorce themselves

 

CHECK UP

Have you ?
Loved your wife as much as you have loved yourself?
Truly identified the cause for your fight and worked at it?
Considered whether you are expecting too much from your spouse?
Looked at the situation from your spouse’s position? 
Taken the extra mile needed, to save your marriage? 
Tried taking the help of a marriage counselor?
Listened to the reasons of your conscience?

 

CARE FROM ABOVE

Godly Wisdom

Trust in God and commit your ways to Him, He will make your path straight

Jesus said, come unto me, all you who are weary and heavy laden, and I will give you rest.

Jesus said, my peace I leave with you; do not let your hearts be troubled

Jesus said, with men it is impossible, but not with God: for with God all things are possible.

 

CASE THAT CHALLENGES

TRUE LIFE STORY OF - Bala Kumar

Ours was a love marriage, which was arranged. Life was gloomy and bloomy all the day. Cuddling, fighting and loving all the way. But as time trickled the initial charisma and the affection faded away. In a blink of an eye our marriage turned from a beautiful breeze to a thunderstorm. It collapsed like a pack of cards, it was like a cold war and on the verge of getting a divorce.

Then we happened to attend a meeting conducted by Urban India Ministries. It was there that God’s word convicted me of my selfishness and sin, and how much I need the forgiveness and peace offered by Jesus at the Cross. Realizing the need for Jesus in my life, I submitted my life unto Him. From then on, the beauty of our marriage started emerging just as God had intended. Growing under God’s care and grace, we are happily married and blessed with a child. To read the full story log on to www.urbanindia.org/balakumar.htm

 

COUNSEL

Practical Tips

Give your relationship precedence over being right in your argument

Be gentle when you disagree; calming down provocations

Focus on the issue and not the person

Handle one problem at a time; don’t bring up unrelated topics

Make allowance for each other’s background and feelings

Consider your spouse better than yourself, out of love